{"id":94706,"date":"2018-02-18T21:36:14","date_gmt":"2018-02-19T01:36:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/?p=94706"},"modified":"2018-02-18T21:36:14","modified_gmt":"2018-02-19T01:36:14","slug":"why-did-nikolas-cruzs-caretakers-have-such-a-different-experience-with-him-somethings-not-quite-right","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/?p=94706","title":{"rendered":"Why did Nikolas Cruz&#8217;s caretakers have such a different experience with him? Something&#8217;s not quite right!"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Nikolas Cruz: &#8216;We had this monster living under our roof and we didn\u2019t know.&#8217;<\/h2>\n<p><!--more-->Paula McMahon<br \/>\nSun Sentinel<\/p>\n<div class=\"trb_ar_page\" data-role=\"pagination_page\" data-content-page=\"1\">\n<p>Nikolas Cruz was immature, quirky and depressed when James and Kimberly Snead took him into their Parkland home. But he was pleasant and seemed to be growing happier, they said.<\/p>\n<p>How the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.sun-sentinel.com\/local\/broward\/parkland\/florida-school-shooting\/fl-florida-school-shooting-suspect-alive-20180216-story.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">19-year-old turned into a killer<\/a>\u00a0still baffles them.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe had this monster living under our roof and we didn\u2019t know,\u201d Kimberly Snead told the South Florida Sun Sentinel in an exclusive interview Saturday. \u201cWe didn\u2019t see this side of him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEverything everybody seems to know, we didn\u2019t know,\u201d James Snead said. \u201cIt\u2019s as simple as that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Cruz still lived with the Sneads on Wednesday when he walked into Marjory\u00a0<a id=\"OREDU0000447\" title=\"Stoneman Douglas High School \" href=\"http:\/\/www.sun-sentinel.com\/topic\/education\/schools\/high-schools\/stoneman-douglas-high-school--OREDU0000447-topic.html\">Stoneman Douglas High School<\/a>\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.sun-sentinel.com\/news\/politics\/fl-florida-school-shooting-gun-control-rally-20180216-story.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">with an AR-15 rifle and killed 17 people<\/a>\u00a0\u2014 the worst school shooting since Sandy Hook.<\/p>\n<aside class=\"trb_em\" data-content-id=\"95958857\" data-content-size=\"large\" data-content-type=\"image\" data-content-slug=\"fl-1518918541-k8ky9evryu-snap-image\" data-content-subtype=\"photo\" data-role=\"sc_item imgsize_ratiosizecontainer lightbox_container \" data-state=\"\" data-embed-id=\"95958857\">\n<div class=\"trb_em_mb\">\n<div class=\"trb_em_m\">\n<figure class=\"trb_em_ic_figure\" data-role=\"imgsize_item\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"trb_em_ic_img\" title=\"Florida school shooting: Family that took in Nikolas Cruz is devastated\" src=\"http:\/\/c-7npsfqifvt34x24x78x78x78x2euscjnhx2edpn.g00.sun-sentinel.com\/g00\/3_c-7x78x78x78.tvo-tfoujofm.dpn_\/c-7NPSFQIFVT34x24iuuqx3ax2fx2fx78x78x78.uscjnh.dpnx2fjnh-6b99ec03x2fuvscjofx2fgm-2629029652-l9lz0fwszv-tobq-jnbhfx2f761x2f761y477x3fj21d.nbslx3djnbhf_$\/$\/$\/$\/$\/$\" alt=\"Florida school shooting: Family that took in Nikolas Cruz is devastated\" data-baseurl=\"http:\/\/www.trbimg.com\/img-5a88db92\/turbine\/fl-1518918541-k8ky9evryu-snap-image\" data-c-nd=\"2048x1152\" \/><\/figure>\n<div class=\"trb_em_r\" data-role=\"lightbox_metadata\">\n<div class=\"trb_embed_related_credit_and_caption\">\n<h5>Kimberly and James Snead took Nikolas Cruz into their home and let him live there for three months before the Parkland school shooting.\u00a0<span style=\"font-size: 12px;\">\u00a0(Staff Photographer Susan Stocker)<\/span><\/h5>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<p>The Sneads\u2019 son had asked whether his friend could move into their home last Thanksgiving. Cruz\u2019s mother, who had adopted him, died of pneumonia Nov. 1, leaving him without parents. He stayed briefly with a family friend in the Lantana area but wanted to move on.<\/p>\n<p>The Sneads quickly agreed \u2014 though they realized he was\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.sun-sentinel.com\/local\/broward\/parkland\/florida-school-shooting\/fl-florida-school-shooting-suspect-alive-20180216-story.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">extremely depressed about his mother\u2019s death<\/a>.<\/p>\n<aside class=\"trb_em\" data-content-pgcredit=\"Mike Stocker\" data-content-id=\"95938056\" data-content-size=\"large\" data-content-type=\"gallery\" data-content-slug=\"sfl-prayer-vigils-to-honor-those-killed-at-marjorie-stoneman-douglas-high-school-20180215\" data-content-subtype=\"photogallery\" data-carousel-options=\"outer&amp;transform&amp;removePagesOnClose\" data-role=\"carousel carousel_swipe lightbox_container imgsize_ratiosizecontainer\" data-content-key=\"4c014e5889351535a51fa1f3d3b8ae24\">\n<div class=\"trb_em_mb\" data-role=\"carousel_view\">\n<div class=\"trb_em_m\">\n<aside class=\"trb_em trb_em_th\" data-content-pgcredit=\"Mike Stocker\" data-content-id=\"95938056\" data-content-size=\"large\" data-content-type=\"image\" data-content-subtype=\"photo\">\n<figure class=\"trb_em_ic_figure\" data-role=\"lightbox_open imgsize_item\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"trb_em_ic_img\" title=\"Prayer vigils to honor those killed at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School\" src=\"http:\/\/c-7npsfqifvt34x24x78x78x78x2euscjnhx2edpn.g00.sun-sentinel.com\/g00\/3_c-7x78x78x78.tvo-tfoujofm.dpn_\/c-7NPSFQIFVT34x24iuuqx3ax2fx2fx78x78x78.uscjnh.dpnx2fjnh-6b96g200x2fuvscjofx2ftgm-qsbzfs-wjhjmt-up-ipops-uiptf-ljmmfe-bu-nbskpsjf-tupofnbo-epvhmbt-ijhi-tdippm-31291326x2f761x2f761y477x3fj21d.nbslx3djnbhf_$\/$\/$\/$\/$\/$\" alt=\"Prayer vigils to honor those killed at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School\" data-baseurl=\"http:\/\/www.trbimg.com\/img-5a85f199\/turbine\/sfl-prayer-vigils-to-honor-those-killed-at-marjorie-stoneman-douglas-high-school-20180215\" data-c-nd=\"2000x1125\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/aside>\n<div class=\"trb_em_r trb_embed_gallerywhole\">\n<div class=\"trb_embed_related_credit_and_caption\">\n<h5>Vigils in around South Florida mourn the 17 killed in the mass shooting at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland on February 14, 2018\u00a0<span style=\"font-size: 12px;\">(Mike Stocker)<\/span><\/h5>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<p>Five days before the shooting, Kimberly Snead took Cruz to the office of a therapist she has been seeing. Cruz said he was open to therapy but didn\u2019t like medication. He took a business card and was figuring out what his health insurance would cover.<\/p>\n<aside class=\"-usc_bs_tqpotpsfenpe\" data-adloader-networktype=\"yieldmo\" data-v-ymid=\"ym_1606467462023723332\" data-role=\"delayload_item\" data-withinviewport-options=\"bottomOffset=100\" data-load-method=\"trb.vendor.yieldmo.init\" data-load-type=\"method\">\n<div id=\"1606467462023723332\" class=\"ym ym_scroll\" data-id=\"ym_1\"><\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<p>James, 48, is a decorated army veteran and a military intelligence analyst who served stints in the Middle East between 1988 and 1996. Kimberly, 49, is a neonatal intensive care nurse who cares for premature and ill babies.<\/p>\n<p>They told Cruz there would be strict rules in their home.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI told him there\u2019d be rules and he followed every rule to the T,\u201d James said.<\/p>\n<p>The couple both grew up around guns and are comfortable with them, but they insist on gun safety.<\/p>\n<p>They made Cruz buy a locking gun safe to put in his room the day he moved in. Cruz had a handful of guns, including the AR-15 and two other rifles that Snead said would be considered assault rifles. Cruz, a hunter, also had knives, BB guns and pellet guns.<\/p>\n<aside class=\"trb_em\" data-content-id=\"95951540\" data-content-size=\"small\" data-content-type=\"story\" data-content-slug=\"fl-florida-school-shooting-nikolas-cruz-warning-signs-20180216\" data-content-subtype=\"story\" data-role=\"sc_item  imgsize_ratiosizecontainer \" data-state=\"\">\n<div class=\"trb_em_m\">\n<figure class=\"trb_em_ic_figure\" data-role=\"imgsize_item\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"trb_em_ic_img\" title=\"Florida shooting suspect Nikolas Cruz showed warning signs for years\" src=\"http:\/\/c-7npsfqifvt34x24x78x78x78x2euscjnhx2edpn.g00.sun-sentinel.com\/g00\/3_c-7x78x78x78.tvo-tfoujofm.dpn_\/c-7NPSFQIFVT34x24iuuqx3ax2fx2fx78x78x78.uscjnh.dpnx2fjnh-6b99e201x2fuvscjofx2fgm-gmpsjeb-tdippm-tippujoh-ojlpmbt-dsva-x78bsojoh-tjhot-31291327x2f461x2f461y208x3fj21d.nbslx3djnbhf_$\/$\/$\/$\/$\/$\" alt=\"Florida shooting suspect Nikolas Cruz showed warning signs for years\" data-baseurl=\"http:\/\/www.trbimg.com\/img-5a88d190\/turbine\/fl-florida-school-shooting-nikolas-cruz-warning-signs-20180216\" data-c-nd=\"2000x1335\" \/><\/figure>\n<div class=\"trb_em_r\" data-role=\"lightbox_metadata\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<p>Snead thought he had the only key to the cabinet but has figured out Cruz must have kept a key for himself. The family kept their own rifles, bought after a burglary a couple of years ago, in a separate locked cabinet.<\/p>\n<p>They told Cruz he needed to ask permission to take out the guns. He had asked only twice since November. They said \u201cyes\u201d once and \u201cno\u201d once.<\/p>\n<p>Cruz\u2019s mom seemed to have cosseted him.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe was very na\u00efve. He wasn\u2019t dumb, just na\u00efve,\u201d James said.<\/p>\n<p>He didn\u2019t know how to cook. They had to show him how to use a microwave. He didn\u2019t know how to do his laundry and also had to learn to pick up after himself.<\/p>\n<p>He didn\u2019t drive but bought a bicycle and rode it to work at a nearby Dollar Tree.<\/p>\n<p>The Sneads had raised their own three boys and jokingly called the process of teaching Cruz \u201cAdulting 101.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>They insisted he enlist in adult education classes run by the school district and drove him to school each day. He didn\u2019t have much time to himself.<\/p>\n<p>He seemed to be doing well and wanted to be an army infantryman. He was excited when an army recruiter visited school recently.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat else could this family have possibly done to put this young man on the right track?\u201d said their attorney, Jim Lewis. \u201cThey tried to do a good deed and it went horribly wrong for them.\u201d<\/p>\n<aside class=\"trb_em\" data-content-id=\"95948739\" data-content-size=\"small\" data-content-type=\"story\" data-content-slug=\"fl-florida-school-shooting-gun-control-rally-20180216\" data-content-subtype=\"story\" data-role=\"sc_item  imgsize_ratiosizecontainer \" data-state=\"\">\n<div class=\"trb_em_m\">\n<figure class=\"trb_em_ic_figure\" data-role=\"imgsize_item\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"trb_em_ic_img\" title=\"Emotional crowd at Fort Lauderdale rally demands gun restrictions\" src=\"http:\/\/c-7npsfqifvt34x24x78x78x78x2euscjnhx2edpn.g00.sun-sentinel.com\/g00\/3_c-7x78x78x78.tvo-tfoujofm.dpn_\/c-7NPSFQIFVT34x24iuuqx3ax2fx2fx78x78x78.uscjnh.dpnx2fjnh-6b909g12x2fuvscjofx2fgm-gmpsjeb-tdippm-tippujoh-hvo-dpouspm-sbmmz-31291327x2f461x2f461y208x3fj21d.nbslx3djnbhf_$\/$\/$\/$\/$\/$\" alt=\"Emotional crowd at Fort Lauderdale rally demands gun restrictions\" data-baseurl=\"http:\/\/www.trbimg.com\/img-5a898f01\/turbine\/fl-florida-school-shooting-gun-control-rally-20180216\" data-c-nd=\"1278x719\" \/><\/figure>\n<div class=\"trb_em_r\" data-role=\"lightbox_metadata\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<p>So far as they know, Cruz wasn\u2019t particularly close to any of the victims and they don\u2019t know of any resentment he might have had against any of the people who were murdered. They have no clue why he did it.<\/p>\n<p>The night before the massacre seemed just like any other, they said.<\/p>\n<p>Cruz had some odd eating habits. He quietly put a chocolate chip cookie in his steak and cheese sandwich. He went to bed around 8 p.m., which wasn\u2019t unusual.<\/p>\n<p>They said they were sure he was bullied; he was the kind of kid that would attract the attention of a bully.<\/p>\n<p>He badly wanted to have a girlfriend and seemed lonely, they said. They don\u2019t know anything about rumors they\u2019ve since heard about a breakup with a girl, stalking or fighting.<\/p>\n<p>They also saw no signs of animal cruelty. They are animal lovers, with two dogs and six cats. He\u2019d have been kicked out if he was mean to their animals. Cruz seemed to love their pets.<\/p>\n<p>On Wednesday morning, Cruz told them he didn\u2019t need a ride to school: \u201cIt\u2019s Valentine\u2019s Day and I don\u2019t go to school on Valentine\u2019s Day,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>Cruz had a \u201cboxer\u2019s fracture\u201d in his right hand after falling on a step in their house about three weeks ago. They now think he removed the cast on his hand, the second he\u2019d had, the day of the shooting. He\u2019d also removed the first cast.<\/p>\n<p>Kimberly last saw him around 10 that morning before she left to run errands. He said he was going fishing and was gone when she returned. She went to sleep because she was supposed to work a night shift that night.<\/p>\n<p>Cruz sent their son a few texts that day. In one, he asked what classroom the boy was in. He said he was going to see a movie.<\/p>\n<p>Later he texted he had \u201csomething important\u201d he wanted to tell the teen. Then he wrote: \u201cNothing man.\u201d<\/p>\n<aside class=\"trb_em\" data-content-id=\"95949261\" data-content-size=\"small\" data-content-type=\"story\" data-content-slug=\"fl-school-shooting-nikolas-cruz-cutting-snapchat-20180216\" data-content-subtype=\"story\" data-role=\"sc_item  imgsize_ratiosizecontainer \" data-state=\"\">\n<div class=\"trb_em_m\">\n<figure class=\"trb_em_ic_figure\" data-role=\"imgsize_item\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"trb_em_ic_img\" title=\"Nikolas Cruz was investigated after cutting himself on Snapchat, state report shows\" src=\"http:\/\/c-7npsfqifvt34x24x78x78x78x2euscjnhx2edpn.g00.sun-sentinel.com\/g00\/3_c-7x78x78x78.tvo-tfoujofm.dpn_\/c-7NPSFQIFVT34x24iuuqx3ax2fx2fx78x78x78.uscjnh.dpnx2fjnh-6b98943gx2fuvscjofx2fgm-tdippm-tippujoh-ojlpmbt-dsva-dvuujoh-tobqdibu-31291327x2f461x2f461y208x3fj21d.nbslx3djnbhf_$\/$\/$\/$\/$\/$\" alt=\"Nikolas Cruz was investigated after cutting himself on Snapchat, state report shows\" data-baseurl=\"http:\/\/www.trbimg.com\/img-5a87832f\/turbine\/fl-school-shooting-nikolas-cruz-cutting-snapchat-20180216\" data-c-nd=\"1200x675\" \/><\/figure>\n<div class=\"trb_em_r\" data-role=\"lightbox_metadata\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<p>They have since figured out those texts were sent during the Uber ride Cruz took to the murder scene. His last text to their son, as Cruz pulled up at the school, said \u201cYo.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>They think Cruz moved out of the home of his late mom\u2019s friend in Lantana because of tension about his guns and a possible misunderstanding about money.<\/p>\n<p>Cruz told them he stood to inherit at least $800,000 from his deceased parents. Most of the money would come when he turned 22, he said. The Sneads have since seen paperwork they think supports the claim he was going to be very financially comfortable.<\/p>\n<p>Cruz thought the family friend in Lantana was stealing money from him but the Sneads suspect she was innocent and he was just a victim of common identity theft. They reported about $2,900 in fraudulent charges on his debit or credit card.<\/p>\n<p>Around 2:30 p.m. Wednesday, their son called sounding panic-stricken. He was safe but had heard shots fired on campus. He helped classmates flee by climbing a fence to neighboring Westglades middle school.<\/p>\n<p>Snead told his son to walk to Walmart and he\u2019d come get him.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"trb_ar_page\" data-role=\"pagination_page\" data-content-page=\"2\" data-state=\"pagination_viewed\">\n<p>As Snead drove there, a SWAT commander called his cellphone and asked where his son Nik was. Told him it wasn\u2019t his son and he didn\u2019t know where he was.<\/p>\n<p>As he kept driving and put two and two together, he became terrified and called the commander back. Snead told the cop the last he knew Nik was home alone with Kimberly: \u201cI need a police presence at my house. Go make sure my wife is OK.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Snead called his son to say he needed to check on mom first and drove home: \u201cI was fearing for her life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kimberly was sleeping because she was supposed to work the night shift that night. Law enforcement banged on her door with guns drawn, yelling: \u201cPut your hands up.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>When they asked where her son was, she assumed something terrible had happened to her son but soon realized they meant Cruz. They searched the house but already had Cruz in custody elsewhere.<\/p>\n<p>After an emotional reunion of husband and wife, they were brought to Broward Sheriff\u2019s headquarters to be reunited with their son. They later realized he was being questioned by detectives in case he was involved. Investigators quickly figured out he was innocent.<\/p>\n<p>As they waited, Cruz was led in to the building, handcuffed and wearing a hospital gown, surrounded by deputies.<\/p>\n<p>Kimberly tried to run at him, James held her back.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cReally, Nik? Really?\u201d she yelled at him.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe said he was sorry. He apologized. He looked lost, absolutely lost,\u201d said James. \u201cAnd that was the last time we saw him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>___<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.sun-sentinel.com\/local\/broward\/parkland\/florida-school-shooting\/fl-school-shooting-family-helped-nikolas-cruz-20180217-story.html\">http:\/\/www.sun-sentinel.com\/local\/broward\/parkland\/florida-school-shooting\/fl-school-shooting-family-helped-nikolas-cruz-20180217-story.html<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nikolas Cruz: &#8216;We had this monster living under our roof and we didn\u2019t know.&#8217;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-94706","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94706","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=94706"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94706\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=94706"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=94706"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=94706"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}