{"id":11682,"date":"2015-02-19T00:07:30","date_gmt":"2015-02-19T00:07:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/?p=11682"},"modified":"2015-02-19T00:07:30","modified_gmt":"2015-02-19T00:07:30","slug":"mother-responds-to-the-unfounded-fears-of-parents-who-super-vaccinate-their-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/?p=11682","title":{"rendered":"Mother Responds To The Unfounded Fears Of Parents Who Super-Vaccinate Their Children"},"content":{"rendered":"<header class=\"entry-header\">\n<h1 class=\"entry-title\">To the Parent of the Immunocompromised Child Who Thinks My Kid is a Threat<\/h1>\n<p class=\"entry-meta\">by <span class=\"entry-author\"><span class=\"entry-author-name\">Megan Heimer<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/header>\n<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.livingwhole.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/shutterstock_955716821.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"  wp-image-3178 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.livingwhole.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/shutterstock_955716821.jpg\" alt=\"shutterstock_95571682\" width=\"619\" height=\"584\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.livingwhole.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/shutterstock_95571682.jpg\"><br \/>\n<\/a>This is a post written in response to \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/www.kidnurse.org\/parents-unvaccinated-child-exposed-family-measles\/\" target=\"_blank\">To the Parent of the Unvaccinated Child Who Exposed My Child to Measles<\/a>.\u201d \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>To the parent of an immunocompromised child who thinks my child is a threat,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I am so sorry that your child has cancer. I cannot imagine how hard that must be for you. I am sure you are trying to do what you think is best for your child, even if that means requesting that I do something that\u2019s not best for mine.\u00a0There are no hard feelings here\u00a0but I have to be honest with you\u2026I too, have a number of emotions\u00a0surging through my body right now.<\/p>\n<p>Towards my children, I am feeling extra protective. Towards my rights, I am like a mean mama bear who got poked during the middle of a nap. Towards the creators of the hysteria that all of a sudden, for the first time in history, deemed one\u00a0child more important and makes my child a perceived threat to everyone else\u2019s, I am angry. Towards the parent of an immunocompromised child I am sympathetic, yet frustrated by the fact that you do not respect my choices, that you think my unvaccinated child is the only one who threatens yours, and\u00a0that you would insinuate that my child should be sacrificed on the\u00a0altar for your child.<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\nBy now, we\u2019ve all been indoctrinated by the measles propaganda surrounding Disneyland. We\u2019ve been mistakenly told that the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nbcnews.com\/storyline\/measles-outbreak\/disney-measles-outbreak-came-overseas-cdc-says-n296441\" target=\"_blank\">unvaccinated are to\u00a0blame<\/a>, that it\u2019s\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/emergency.cdc.gov\/han\/han00376.asp\" target=\"_blank\">only occurring in unvaccinated individuals<\/a>, and that measles disappeared 15 years ago and all of a sudden made a comeback.<\/p>\n<p>In order to justify the removal of our parental rights, we\u2019re told that the unvaccinated put infants and the immunocompromised at risk and we\u2019re shown pictures of children suffering from cancer and other illnesses to drive this point home.\u00a0We are not however, shown pictures of vaccine-injured children who have died, suffer from cancer, or have\u00a0debilitating conditions caused by vaccines. No, that would be too objective.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-3149 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.livingwhole.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/10613006_10100253875399129_6230335999461965279_n.jpg\" alt=\"10613006_10100253875399129_6230335999461965279_n\" width=\"304\" height=\"287\" \/>For the sake of this letter, I\u2019m not going to\u00a0correct the inaccurate assumption that\u00a0the only reason parents don\u2019t vaccinate is because of vaccine ingredients like thimerosal, nor will I address the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.morganverkamp.com\/august-27-2014-press-release-statement-of-william-w-thompson-ph-d-regarding-the-2004-article-examining-the-possibility-of-a-relationship-between-mmr-vaccine-and-autism\/\" target=\"_blank\">highly suspect\u00a0studies\u00a0<\/a>funded by pharmaceutical companies\u00a0(or entities that have incestuous relationships with pharmaceutical companies)\u00a0that deem their own\u00a0vaccines safe, and I dare not sway opinion with an emotional story of my son, who was vaccinated with MMR, almost died, and was subjected to\u00a0a\u00a0240%\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/ireport.cnn.com\/docs\/DOC-1164794\" target=\"_blank\">increased risk<\/a> of developing\u00a0autism. No,\u00a0I won\u2019t\u00a0show the photo of his sick, emaciated body lying in my arms\u00a0after we flew across the world to be with him.<\/p>\n<p>So let\u2019s talk about measles for\u00a0just a minute. It was once widespread in the U.S. I do not argue this fact. I argue that measles\u00a0had significantly declined prior to the vaccine and has been and will always be\u00a0a common childhood illness\u00a0that when contracted at the appropriate age, yields lifetime immunity, protection <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/2856946\" target=\"_blank\">against more serious diseases <\/a>(like cancer) as an adult, and allows a mother to pass on the protection needed to keep her baby safe for his\/her first year of life or longer.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Measles is \u201can <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/mmwr\/preview\/mmwrhtml\/mm6322a4.htm?s_cid=mm6322a4_w\" target=\"_blank\">illness characterized by a generalized rash<\/a> lasting \u22653 days, a temperature of \u2265101\u00b0F [\u226538.3\u00b0C], and cough, coryza, and\/or conjunctivitis.\u201d \u2013 The CDC<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Measles is typically more severe in adults but prior to the vaccine, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/vaccines\/pubs\/pinkbook\/meas.html\" target=\"_blank\">90% of people<\/a> had it by the time they were 15 years-old and the majority of children had it during their <a href=\"http:\/\/jid.oxfordjournals.org\/content\/189\/Supplement_1\/S4.full\" target=\"_blank\">early school years<\/a>. Now, babies and adults are the at-risk populations and lack immunity because vaccines have manipulated it. Yes, every baby and adult (vaccinated or not) can ultimately thank the vaccination program for their measles. Please forward your \u201cthank you\u201d cards to Merck, not me.<\/p>\n<p>Now, it is true,\u00a0the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/measles\/about\/transmission.html\" target=\"_blank\">CDC<\/a> says that infected people can spread measles four days before a rash appears, but\u00a0a rash isn\u2019t the first sign of measles.\u00a0According to the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/vaccines\/pubs\/pinkbook\/meas.html\" target=\"_blank\">CDC<\/a>, a person with \u00a0measles will first get a fever, which\u00a0\u201cincreases in stepwise fashion, often peaking as high as 103\u00b0\u2013105\u00b0F. This is followed by the onset of cough, coryza (runny nose), or conjunctivitis.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So is the problem with the child\u2019s vaccination status\u00a0or is it the fact that a parent had a child with a fever and\/or cough and toted\u00a0her kid\u00a0to Disney land anyway? I mean\u2026they did pay for a trip to see Elsa\u00a0and all. This is assuming that an unvaccinated child is actually responsible for the measles outbreak at Disney and not <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nbcnews.com\/storyline\/measles-outbreak\/disney-measles-outbreak-came-overseas-cdc-says-n296441\" target=\"_blank\">foreign tourists<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Like all infectious diseases, measles is\u00a0contagious (though it can only survive on surfaces or in air for 2 hours or less),\u00a0which is why the vaccinated should avoid contact with immunocompromised people\u00a0for six weeks, why parents should be trained to recognize the first signs of an illness, and why you should never blow your nose on someone else\u2019s shirt or cough in someone else\u2019s face.<\/p>\n<p>Measles itself is unpleasant but there are rarely complications unless you consider diarrhea and ear infections (both side effects of the vaccine) \u201ccomplications.\u201d Sure, your child could get pneumonia, brain encephalitis, or die but these\u00a0side effects are extremely rare in a developed country and are also side-effects of the vaccine. We haven\u2019t had a confirmed death from measles in over 10 years.<\/p>\n<p>And let\u2019s not forget, complications occur mostly in children <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/vaccines\/pubs\/pinkbook\/meas.html\" target=\"_blank\">under the age of 5 and adults over the age of 20<\/a>, two groups that are now at risk thanks to\u2026you got it\u2026the vaccine.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re told\u00a0brain encephalitis and death from the MMR vaccine are \u201crare\u201d but the government doesn\u2019t deem it important enough to properly monitor what happens to our children after they\u2019re vaccinated and there are thousands of children who prove otherwise. What we do know is that death is a possible adverse reaction, was reported in pre-licensure studies,\u00a0and\u00a0140 children have died from the MMR vaccine since 2000 per the <a href=\"http:\/\/vaers.hhs.gov\/index\" target=\"_blank\">Vaccine Adverse Events Reporting System<\/a> and that is estimated to be only 1-10% of the actual number. In addition to death and brain encephalitis, other <a href=\"http:\/\/www.merck.com\/product\/usa\/pi_circulars\/m\/mmr_ii\/mmr_ii_pi.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">adverse reactions<\/a> to this vaccine include (but are not limited to):<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Panniculitis, atypical measles, fever, syncope, headache, dizziness, irritability, vasculitis, pancreatitis, <strong>diarrhea<\/strong>, vomiting, parotitis, nausea, diabetes, thrombocytopenia, purpura, regional lymphadenopathy, leukocytosis, anaphylaxis, arthritis, arthralgia, myalgia, <strong>encephalitis<\/strong>, encephalopathy, measles inclusion body encephalitis, subacute sclerosing panencephalitis, Guillain-Barr\u00e9 Syndrome, acute disseminated encephalomyelitis, seizures, convulsions, polyneuritis, polyneuropathy, ocular palsies, paresthesia, aseptic meningitis, <strong>pneumonia<\/strong>, pneumonitis, sore throat, cough, rhinitis, Stevens-Johnson syndrome, erythema multiforme, urticaria, measles-like rash [also known as measles], pruritus, nerve deafness, <strong>otitis media<\/strong>, retinitis, optic neuritis (i.e. blindness), papillitis, retrobulbar neuritis, conjunctivitis, epididymitis, orchitis, and death.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Whoa, calm down self.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I assume you love your child as much as I and you are making the best decisions you can for her\u00a0but please realize you cannot expect my child to live in a bubble.<\/strong>An unvaccinated child who is actually carrying a disease could be a potential risk to your child, this is true but so is\u2026<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>A child who was recently vaccinated with varicella, MMR, rotavirus, and influenza, (all live vaccines that can <a href=\"http:\/\/globenewswire.com\/news-release\/2015\/02\/02\/702199\/10118172\/en\/Studies-Show-that-Vaccinated-Individuals-Spread-Disease.html\" target=\"_blank\">shed<\/a> and infect yours),<\/li>\n<li>A child who was\u00a0vaccinated but didn\u2019t develop immunity,<\/li>\n<li>A <a href=\"http:\/\/cid.oxfordjournals.org\/content\/early\/2014\/02\/27\/cid.ciu105\" target=\"_blank\">vaccinated child<\/a> who <a href=\"http:\/\/news.sciencemag.org\/health\/2014\/04\/measles-outbreak-traced-fully-vaccinated-patient-first-time\" target=\"_blank\">develops the disease<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.npr.org\/blogs\/health\/2014\/04\/18\/304155213\/why-mumps-and-measles-can-spread-even-when-were-vaccinated\" target=\"_blank\">spreads it to others<\/a>,<\/li>\n<li>An\u00a0adult recently vaccinated with <a href=\"http:\/\/www.medbioworld.com\/news.php?topic=0&amp;article=20110208clin009.xml\" target=\"_blank\">shingles<\/a>,<\/li>\n<li>Every\u00a0single adult (save a few exceptions) whose\u00a0temporary (if any), artificial immunity they got from their <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/vaccines\/adults\/rec-vac\/index.html?s_cid=cs_650\" target=\"_blank\">childhood\u00a0vaccines<\/a> has\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/pii\/S0264410X12007207\" target=\"_blank\">long worn off<\/a>,<\/li>\n<li>An\u00a0individual who, vaccinated or not, has any type of illness whatsoever.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Oh, you didn\u2019t know this? If you\u2019re a doctor, you should. It\u2019s all right,\u00a0this information is in the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.immunize.org\/packageinserts\/\" target=\"_blank\">package inserts <\/a>and the peer-reviewed data. Yet, you claim I should\u00a0vaccinate my children because the MMR vaccine doesn\u2019t work for everyone, your wife <a href=\"http:\/\/jid.oxfordjournals.org\/content\/early\/2013\/04\/29\/infdis.jit143.full.pdf+html\" target=\"_blank\">didn\u2019t pass on the protective immunity<\/a> to your baby exposure to wild measles would have given her,\u00a0and you have an immunocompromised child who is at risk by both vaccinated and unvaccinated alike.<\/p>\n<p>Sounds like a problem with the vaccine to me and lack of knowledge parents have regarding proper disease management. Maybe we should emphasize more education and less vaccinations.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But let\u00a0me tell you why I have a problem\u00a0with the\u00a0argument that I have to sacrifice the health of my child for yours:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>First<\/strong>, the MMR vaccine has not been proven safe or effective so to ask me to vaccinate my child with something that hasn\u2019t even been properly subjected to pre-licensure, double-blind, placebo-controlled studies using an inert placebo, which is the standard for evidenced based medicine is ludicrous. That\u2019s like asking me to put on a Santa suit and jump off the roof of a house or asking me to give my child a chemotherapy drug that was tested against one of its own ingredients to determine\u00a0safety.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Second<\/strong>, vaccinations place\u00a0my children into the \u201cat-risk\u201d categories where measles is much more severe. I\u2019m thinking about my babies\u2019 babies here. Some argue that if we were vaccinated we could protect all of the old people and babies from measles. I say, why pour more of what started the fire on it? I\u2019m personally a fan of herd immunity myself.\u00a0You do know it <a href=\"http:\/\/aje.oxfordjournals.org\/content\/17\/3\/613.full.pdf+html\" target=\"_blank\">doesn\u2019t apply to vaccines<\/a> right?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Third<\/strong>, it\u2019s misleading to say that the MMR vaccine results in immunity to most who receive it without noting that the immunity given (if any) is temporary (i.e. lasting for a limited period of time). It\u2019s like that really good date you never wanted to end or the pains of childbirth.\u00a0That\u2019s probably why <a href=\"http:\/\/www.naturalimmunityfundamentals.com\/herdimmunity\" target=\"_blank\">vaccine-induced\u00a0herd immunity<\/a> is a major fail.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fourth<\/strong>, there are many <a href=\"http:\/\/hearthiswell.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">children<\/a> who are now immunocompromised because of vaccines. Anyone who thinks otherwise is living under a rock.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fifth<\/strong>, there are other ways to prevent disease that doesn\u2019t put either\u00a0of our children at risk. Even the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.who.int\/mediacentre\/factsheets\/fs286\/en\/\" target=\"_blank\">World Health Organization<\/a>\u00a0recognizes that using vitamin A can reduce measles deaths by 50%.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sixth<\/strong>, when our kids are sick and must go to the doctor or\u00a0be\u00a0admitted to a hospital, there is a waiting room full of sick people and\u00a0an infinite number of viruses circulating that could make our children sick. In fact,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/HAI\/surveillance\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\">1 in 25 people<\/a>\u00a0admitted to a hospital will acquire a health-care\u00a0associated\u00a0infection. That\u2019s adds up to\u00a0721,800 people each year. Although measles didn\u2019t make the list, maybe\u00a0if we didn\u2019t make it\u00a0out to be the monster that it isn\u2019t, people wouldn\u2019t feel the need to bring their child in when they have an infectious disease\u00a0with\u00a0symptoms that could easily be managed at home.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Seventh<\/strong>, if government and health officials really cared about the immunocompromised, they would advise the parents of recently vaccinated\u00a0children to\u00a0avoid public places (including schools, daycares, and Disney)\u00a0where immunocompromised children could be present. They would also educate parents on recognizing the\u00a0signs and symptoms of disease, show them how to manage non-emergency symptoms at home, would encourage other methods of disease prevention, and would emphasize quarantine \u2013 not for the perfectly healthy, unvaccinated children, but for any sick child.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sorry your vacation came to an end but the unvaccinated parent did not cause your child\u2019s immunocompromised condition and there is no causal connection between an unvaccinated child and your child\u2019s exposure. A causal connection is what\u2019s required, right?<\/p>\n<p>When we take our child to a place like Disneyland, or any other public place for that matter (including a hospital), we assume the risk that we might come into contact with a sick person, someone who hasn\u2019t washed their hands, a kid who has picked their nose, or rides that have not been properly sanitized between each use.\u00a0It is not fair to require that my child get vaccinated for the benefit of yours or to force my child to live in a bubble so that yours doesn\u2019t have to.<\/p>\n<p>By the way, did you know that studies show that exposing a cancer patient to wild measles could cure them? (See the Lancet \u2013 Bluming 1971, Pasquinucci 1971, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/799761\" target=\"_blank\">Zygier<\/a>1971, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/pii\/S0140673681922868\" target=\"_blank\">Taqi<\/a> 1981 and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC1589969\/?page=1\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC3926122\/#R64\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>).\u00a0CNN even covered the story of the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC3926122\" target=\"_blank\">Ugandan boy<\/a>who went into remission after wild measles exposure but the video and article have since been taken down. No surprise there.\u00a0We\u2019re\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.livingwhole.org\/measles-vaccine-as-a-cancer-treatment-absolutely-not\/\" target=\"_blank\">trying to make a vaccine<\/a>\u00a0for that. If I\u00a0had a child with cancer, you better believe I\u2019d be looking for a kid with measles. But that\u2019s just me.<\/p>\n<p>Although I sympathize with your situation, pray healing for your child, and wish your circumstances on no one, that does not give anyone the grounds to trump my parental rights. My obligation as a parent is to my children, not yours and I will always (always) put them first.\u00a0Don\u2019t take it\u00a0personally.\u00a0I\u2019m just a little tired of my\u00a0children being used as the scapegoats of emotional arguments and misguided assertions.<\/p>\n<p>You would be too if you were told you <a href=\"http:\/\/www.donotlink.com\/dlo4\" target=\"_blank\">should be jailed<\/a>\u00a0or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.donotlink.com\/dlo2\" target=\"_blank\">sued<\/a>\u00a0for exercising your autonomy as a parent and your\u00a0\u201canti-vaxxer\u201d children should\u00a0be subjected to\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.donotlink.com\/dlo7\" target=\"_blank\">segregation<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.thewrap.com\/abc-view-whoopi-goldberg-on-vaccinations-video\/\" target=\"_blank\">marked like the jews<\/a>. I\u2019m\u00a0scared to repeat history. Aren\u2019t you?<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Mama Bear<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you gained something from this article, please like it, share it, and follow livingwhole.org on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/LivingWhole.Org?ref=hl\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook<\/a>. To read\u00a0another Living Whole post on measles, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.livingwhole.org\/this-mama-isnt-scared-of-the-shmeasle-measles\/\" target=\"_blank\">click here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>For the sake of full disclosure, I am not a physician. I am a highly educated parent who knows how to read between the lines. If you can\u2019t, read my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.livingwhole.org\/about\/disclaimer\/\" target=\"_blank\">disclaimer<\/a> here.<\/p>\n<p>Photo Credit: Shutterstock<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To the Parent of the Immunocompromised Child Who Thinks My Kid is a Threat by Megan Heimer This is a post written in response to \u201cTo the Parent of the Unvaccinated Child Who Exposed My Child to Measles.\u201d \u00a0 To &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/?p=11682\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11682","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11682","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11682"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11682\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11682"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11682"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stateofthenation2012.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11682"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}